I recently had a fallout with a best friend.
There’s two sides to every story, yes.
Her side was that I called too much. She said I needed to talk to someone everyday, and that she had a life, too, and couldn’t talk all the time.
I get it. I do. I called a lot. I always needed to talk to someone and she claimed she was my best friend so I always called her. She was my goto person when I was in need.
She has since unfriended me and said she was done.
I stuck by her when she was going through abusive relationships, her drinking and drugging, and episodes of BPD. I was always there, and never turned down her conversation, calls, or texts. Even when she called me at 3AM. She used to call me a lot. Ever since she moved in with her current boyfriend, she has a life now.
Idk. I was going through a lot last month and she told me she wasn’t working for about 3 weeks. I had tried calling and she never answered the phone.
No, but I get it. People make priority what is priority to them. I was priority until she got with her boyfriend. Even when I got my boyfriend, I kept calling her.
Moral of the story is: If you claim you are my best friend, and I put my all into you, I expect reciprocation.
I dont see how I’m in the wrong. Especially when she continually told me she was a shitty friend.
I’m gonna move on without her. Going to do my own thing.
Thanks for reading! And until next time!